When the Breakup Has No Makeup, It’s Time to Wake Up!
Most of us have had that one relationship that took the wind out of our lungs. When you are dating each other, everything seems to be hunky dory but when the same dates begins to behave weirdly, you are devastated. Yes, we know break-ups hurt when you are in love but it also means that it’s time to learn from your mistakes.
Here are 10 powerful lessons that a bad-breakup will teach you;
1. No relationship is ever a waste of time:
We should accept the fact that the presence of a person in our life, is meant to be a lesson or a blessing either way it’s all for good. All in the name of Love.
2. Everything changes in life and nothing is permanent.
Things will never remain the same, forever. Change happens all the time. Sometimes things skid out of your control which is why it doesn’t hurt to be alert all the time. Learn to accept and move on. Just start dating again. There are many dates waiting for you. Relationships, are akin a part of life, not life in itself.
3. Time to choose your path.
Break ups might leave you feeling all-lost and alone. But changes are bound to happen, life’s all about fighting against the tide. Once you regain full control over life, you will start thinking of love as an end-point of trauma and start visualizing on a new beginning more like the start of a new-chapter in life. Relationships go the same way too, learn to accept the fact and move on.
4. Learning to pick yourself-up.
The break-up phase is never easy to deal with. But life would make it all worth-while in the long run. It’s time to learn to build your self-esteem and start hitting reality check on the fact that he/she isn’t yours anymore. Start dating and looking out for new-bis to make up for the time you lost.
5. Letting go of the past is highly necessary.
Though it isn’t as easy as it is predicted to be, letting go is an integral part of life. Relationships, love come and go. Remember, you are here to stay.
6. Karma is there, watching you, watching me.
Hatred affects you, more than the person intended. So let life happen. And am sure, most of you would be able to dote on the fact that, you will see your ex’s screwing it up themselves *wink-wink* . Love and hate relationship with your ex, is common. Learn to cope up with it.
OR MAYBE LIKE THIS
7. Never ever, trust anyone else ‘BLINDLY’
It’s time to draw the line and after experiencing a break-up and learn to rely more on yourself rather than on anybody else. Because some battles in life are meant to be fought alone.
8. What is meant to be, is meant to be, Indeed
Learn to accept life for what it actually is. None of us can argue with life or fate. So it’s time to buckle up and learn to accept it and most importantly move on.
9. Learn to be honest with yourself.
Don’t deny the fact that you miss him/her but note to self that missing them is also a part of moving on.
10. Learn to stop blaming
Everything in life happens for a reason. Learn and move on. There’s a reason behind everything that happens in life, break-ups and relationships are just the same. Stop looking for someone to blame it all on.
Move on. Who knows where your path may lead you to?