Listed below are some of the basic facts about marriage that you need to steer clear before your D-day. Once you are able to accept the basic facts, all that you need to deal with is renewing vows. Life post marriage would be pretty much easier to deal with; if you can keep the expectations low and learn to keep working on the same, so here goes the five golden facts of marriage;
1). YOU NEED TO TOP THE PRIORITY LIST.
Marriage would be pretty easy to deal with it when it’s just on the ropes of beginning; but once the kids enter the picture things can go in for a rapid toss. You would find it darn difficult to even talk for ten minutes. So make it a point to go for compulsory weekend dinners or talk to each other at the end of the day so you don’t lose out on the sparkle and shimmer. Moreover when you are each other’s top priority your partner would eliminate the necessity to seek affection or solace elsewhere.
2). LEARN TO KEEP THINGS FUN.
Make it a point to always try new things like spend time together trying out new cuisines, sky diving, scuba diving , hiking, trekking or boating etc. Go for random trips together, indulge in romantic escapades often and learn to explore the beauty of the world together.
3). MONEY COMES AND GOES, FAMILY IS FOREVER.
One minute you might be right on top of the world while the other as low as you can be so it’s necessary to cherish the love and family forever no matter what. It’s important to understand that bonding, closeness and family time is forever. Money cannot buy love, enough said isn’t it?
4). LEARN TO STAND BY EACH OTHER.
You might face so many issues like in-laws fighting or kids squabbling over each other; still if you managed to stick through any kind of issue it can be resolved in the long run of life. If you stay united kids might take the lead and follow the same.
5). MARRIAGE ISN’T A FAIRYTALE.
You need to accept that Marriage isn’t a fairytale. You need to constantly work on it, spend time on the same and take efforts to keep up the romance. Marriage cannot blow away your problems but it’s just that you get a partner to resolve the same. It’s more like a bunch of ups and downs but you get to hold onto someone all through it.
Trust me, True love and soul mates do exist though it doesn’t appear to do so. So start working in on to treat your partner the way you want yourself to be treated by them!! 😀 😀