Hello folks!! Whenever you settle in for an arranged marriage; am sure you will be bombarded with a lot of questions and queries about what-not duh?
So if youâ€™re ready to go in for a toss in with arranged marriage, then please make sure you gear up for the same!! . Listed below are some of the most commonly posed questions at the time of fixing a wedding which will make you wonder if itâ€™s worth the effort at all? Anyways make sure you buckle up and pen these down;
1). DO YOU LIKE WEARING SAREES?
This is the most common household question put forth to all Indian brides; also Beta can you get your drape right? Sigh; as if itâ€™s the clothes that decide, if the bride is worth the match or not.
2). YOU LIKE KIDS NA?
This would make go on crack and am sure some of you will want to yell am more of a career woman; not the mothering type. Still, you should smile and bear it all along to pass it on.
3). YOU WANT TO WORK AFTER MARRIAGE?
This can put you off limits for you have toiled hard and got yourselves to earn degrees only so that you can work, but now you come to realize that itâ€™s all down the drain for they want you to stay at home and be a free maid, duh !!
4).YOU CAN COOK WELL?
People assume when you are born a girl, cooking abilities are born along with you; like theyâ€™re in your blood. And no matter what; cooking is still one of the norms thatâ€™s required for every girl to be considered fit for marriage.
5). YOU HAD BOY FRIENDS BEFORE?
And you will go like â€œWhat? Excuse me?â€ and my dear girls if and if only you get around to being asked this then make sure you counter question the groom as well. Tit for tat; after all you need to know about his past too isnâ€™t it?
6). ARE YOU A VIRGIN?
You’ll be like What?
This is a typical question that can be put forth by both the groom as well as his mother, so knuckle up and make sure you prepare yourself to answer such inquisitive questions with much vehemence.
and If you were me, you would go like 😀 ,
In the end, keeping yourself happy is what comes first so my dear girls settle for the one who takes you for what you are and not for the one who takes you for what you ever will be!!