A relationship needn’t always be perfect but it’s necessary that it should be satisfying and happy. It’s necessary to note that a relationship with the perfect person will change you in ways that you’d not known previously.
It’s scientifically proven that being in a happy relationship will affect your physical and mental well-being thus making you a better, happier and positive person.
Listed below are the 10 signs of a healthy and mature relationship:
1. You inspire each other to be better.
Being in the relationship makes you a better person and makes you believe in yourself more. You strive to prove yourself to your partner in order to be worthy of his/her confidence.
2. You rediscover the passion in you.
If you feel yourself being inspired to take up writing or gardening or anything else than you always wanted to do then it’s an obvious sign that the relationship is having a positive impact on you.
3.Stability is a part of your lifestyle now.
Mood swings are a thing of the past. Long gone are the days of the crazy crying, for stability has slowly become your norm these days. You are a much calmer, sorted out person these days.
4. You have become selfless these days.
You have started putting him/her down before yourself. Be it getting your partner a chocolate or his/her favorite brand of shoes you have learnt to put others before yourself.
5. You have become a stronger person.
Being in a stabilized relationship has given you the confidence that you can handle no matter what life throws at you.
6.There’s zero negativity in life.
When you’re friends complain about his/her partners you feel like you have nothing to contribute given the fact that deep down, you have no regrets. You love your partner so much that you feel complete these days despite the imperfection.
7.You have object permanence.
In an adult relationship, you always know that you can go out into the world, have fun and do your thing but the bond you’ve formed with the person you care about will always be there when you come back. The trust you have your partner will make sure that you have your space no matter what. Be it ladies nights, concert nights or simply pyjama parties you can engage in them without the fear that your partner will feel left out of it.
8.You make joint decisions.
It’s neither your call nor his. Every decision you take, also involves your partner. Right from choosing what movie to watch to how many children to have, you always address each other’s opinions and desires.
9.You learnt to let things go.
No matter how much your partner annoys you or you know annoy them, deep down you know both of you will be able to let that go. Both of you are aware of the fact that you will never stop trying in the relationship and that you will always be there for each other no matter what.
10. You have your own space.
Being in a relationship has also given you the advantage of having your own space. You still have time to pursue your interests and thereby giving each other the opportunity to grow as individuals.
In short, being in such a relationship will not only help you become a better couple but also better individuals !